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Sinem Yilanci, MA, MS, LMFT

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I work with teens, adults, couples, and families around anxiety, relationships, trauma, life transitions, and developmental differences.

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Due to my proximity to Silicon Valley, I often work with professionals in high-pressure roles, as well as immigrants navigating different cultures, though my practice is not limited to this. Many of my clients struggle with self-esteem, self-criticism, and codependency—areas I focus on in my work.

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My background is in early development, attachment, and developmental differences. While I no longer work directly with young children, this training informs how I understand adult patterns, especially in relationships, emotional regulation, and neurodivergence. We may look at how earlier experiences continue to shape current dynamics, without getting stuck in the past.

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I use EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and mindfulness-based approaches, depending on what is needed. My focus is on helping you understand patterns, process experiences, and shift how you relate to yourself and others.

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I have experience working with trauma, anxiety, depression, and neurodevelopmental differences (including ADHD and autism).

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In my work with couples and families, I draw from the Gottman approach and help navigate a range of issues, including communication difficulties, recurring conflict, trust, disconnection, and life transitions.

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Fluent in English and Turkish.

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Education & Training

My clinical work is grounded in formal graduate training in psychology, philosophy, spirituality, trauma, attachment, and relational development. Over the years, I have continued to deepen my practice through advanced trainings in EMDR, couples therapy, Internal Family Systems-informed work, interpersonal neurobiology, attachment, trauma treatment, and child-parent psychotherapy.

Education

Master of Science in Clinical Psychology
San Francisco State University, 2014

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Master of Arts in Philosophy and Religion
Concentration in Women’s Spirituality
California Institute of Integral Studies, 2008

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Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy
Boğaziçi University, Istanbul, Turkey, 2002

Advanced Clinical Training & Certifications

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing — EMDR

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Gottman Method Couples Therapy
Level 1 and Level 2

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Internal Family Systems-Informed Therapy

 

The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine
Training in attachment, trauma, anxiety, and core beliefs, including:
The Neurobiology of Attachment
The Treating Trauma Master Series
Expert Strategies for Working with Anxiety
Working with Core Beliefs of “Never Good Enough”

Attachment, Developmental & Family-Based Training

Child-Parent Psychotherapy
UCSF Child Trauma Research Center

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Infant-Parent Psychotherapy
UCSF Infant-Parent Program

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Circle of Security

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DIR/Floortime
Profectum Foundation

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Hand in Hand Parenting Program

Interpersonal Neurobiology & Mindsight

Mindsight Institute Trainings
Foundations of Mindsight and Interpersonal Neurobiology
Clinical Applications of Mindsight and Interpersonal Neurobiology
Teaching Mindsight and Interpersonal Neurobiology

Crisis & Advocacy Training

Rape Crisis Counselor Certificate
San Francisco Women Against Rape

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